In a world where everyone and everything is always connected, unplugging can feel like a bold move or even an act of rebellion. For some couples the unplugged approach isn’t a fight against technology, but rather a commitment to intimacy and being in the moment. An unplugged wedding ceremony is the perfect opportunity to promote shared moments and meaningful connections between the couple and their guests.

Understanding an Unplugged Ceremony

An unplugged wedding ceremony is one where guests are asked to refrain from using phones and cameras. Usually, the intent is to create an intimate space that is free of distractions, one where everyone can fully immerse themselves in the joy of a couple beginning their lives as a married pair.

Exploring Reasons To Unplug

As an officiant, you may be called on to plan an unplugged ceremony. Before developing an unplugged wedding ceremony script, it’s important to consider why a couple might want unplugged nuptials:

• Focusing on the couple: The couple should be the star of their show. Eliminating phone distractions ensures they get all the attention and feel celebrated and cherished.
• Making the moment count: This might seem counterintuitive as photos and videos are great ways to capture a moment; however, emotional connections can be diminished when everyone's eyes are glued to their screens. An unplugged ceremony helps ensure everyone witnesses the vows and expressions of love for a richer memory. Removing the barriers of phones also facilitates genuine reactions and raw emotions in the best way.
• Respecting the photographer or videographer: Professional photographers and videographers bring expertise and equipment to capture the magic of the nuptials. Flashes from other devices can hinder their work and compromise their final product.

Unplugging also helps to create an atmosphere of respect, mindfulness, and engagement.

Navigating the Request To Unplug

Open and gracious communication is key to a successful unplugged ceremony. Consider these tips

• Announce early: Don’t wait until the big day to make the request. This should be included on invitations, save-the-date notices, and wedding websites. You don’t need to provide a long explanation. Keep it short and sweet: “We invite you to be present during our special day by turning off your phone and celebrating with us.”
• Remind gently with signage: You can also include small signs near the venue entrance or on chairs.
• Designate a special time for photos: Loved ones may want to take a picture or record a video. You can set aside time before or after the ceremony for photos.
• Leave it to the officiant: The officiant can also make the request before the ceremony or during the welcome or opening remarks. Next are some ideas for an unplugged wedding ceremony script.

Finding the Right Words

Check out these examples for unplugged ceremony wording:

Classic

“Welcome, friends and family! Before we start, please turn your phones off and put them away. _________ and _________ have requested an unplugged ceremony, so that you can be fully present with them as they celebrate this milestone in their journey.”

Short and Sweet

“We invite you to be fully immersed in the moment by putting away your cell phones and cameras during the ceremony.”

Short and Modern

“No phones. Just vibes.”

Humor

“_________ and _________ have hired a real photographer to take professional-quality pictures, and they didn’t pay good money to have you ruin things with your phone. Thanks!”

“_________ and _________ invited you here to see your pretty faces and warm smiles, not the backs of your phones. Please honor their request to put away all cell phones.”

“The only people who should have their phones out during the ceremony are people who didn’t get an invitation, which requested no phones. If that applies to you, please raise your hand so security can remove you. Thank you!”

Heartfelt

“_________ and _________ wanted to surround themselves with the people who mean the most to them on this special day. What’s more important than the presents you bought is your presence. The couple really wanted you to be here in the moment with them so they’ve requested no phones during the ceremony.

These are just a few templates that you can adapt based on your style, ceremony structure, or the couple’s preferences. An unplugged wedding is a personal decision driven by the couple’s desire for a focused, intimate, and emotional celebration. Respectful communication of their wishes helps to create a dream wedding where genuine connection takes center stage for a more memorable day.