As more couples ponder unique and special ways to tie the knot, destination weddings continue to be the nuptials of choice for many. Setting sail to say “I do” holds a special appeal as the image of a vast ocean as a backdrop is captivating. Imagine a sea captain dressed in uniform at the altar leading you and your spouse-to-be through your vows! While the allure is undeniable, is it realistic? Can ship captains perform weddings? This article delves into the legal nuances of ship captains performing weddings and the complexities involved.

Can a Ship Captain Officiate a Wedding Legally?

It is a common misconception that ship captains are inherently authorized to perform weddings at sea. After all, the captain usually has the most authority on a boat. Unfortunately, this is a myth. In most countries, captains don’t have the legal power to perform weddings by virtue of their rank. This includes the United States.

For captains to legally officiate weddings, they must either be judges, justices of the peace, notary publics, or ordained ministers recognized by organizations with the authority to perform marriages, like the Universal Life Church. While many ordained ministers have to undergo theological training and adhere to specific doctrines, there are easier ways for people to become legally authorized to marry couples on land and sea! Because ships are often in the jurisdictional waters of other countries, additional certifications may be necessary based on location.

Can Ship Captains Officiate Weddings Under Special Circumstances?

While the legality of marriage concerning a licensed officiant is clear, there are some exceptions and nuances that you should be aware of.

• Other countries: In Japan, ship captains can perform seaside weddings for couples that have valid Japanese passports. Some countries, like Bermuda, have specific regulations granting captains limited marriage officiating abilities within their territorial waters.
• Onboard chapels: Some cruise ships have onboard chapels and ordained ministers on staff who can perform weddings, not unlike standalone wedding chapels in popular tourist destinations such as Las Vegas and Hawaii.
• Commitment ceremonies: Captains don’t need credentials to conduct non-legally binding commitment ceremonies for couples, including those seeking to renew their vows. The legally binding event can take place at another time and place, while the couple gets to enjoy the mood and the vibe of an onboard ceremony. 

What Else Should Nautical Nuptial-Seeking Couples Consider?

Weddings on ships present a unique challenge as their locations could be within territorial limits or in international waters. If you’re considering a ceremony on a boat, ponder these possibilities:

• Docked wedding: A wedding on a boat that is docked at a port is less complex as the local laws of that port will govern the wedding. It is your responsibility to thoroughly research the legal validity of your wedding based on the chosen location and the captain’s qualifications. Legal marriage has many implications when it comes to things like taxes, benefits, insurance, and more. Invalid ceremonies can have dire consequences in the future.
• Logistics: Coordinating with various authorities, obtaining licenses, and navigating international laws can make ship weddings difficult to pull off. Consider getting married on a cruise with a company that performs weddings and has facilities and ordained staff on hand. It is still your responsibility to be diligent about documentation, including proper marriage licenses and witnesses needed. Be aware that your marriage may not be recognized at some ports in some countries. Consider local laws at every port of call in your planning.
• Nautical-themed ceremonies: A ship wedding naturally incorporates nautical themes for the setting. If you’re interested in incorporating marine symbols and concepts elsewhere, discuss your ideas with a wedding planner (affiliated with the boat) or other staff in advance.
• One-stop honeymoon: A boat wedding is a type of destination wedding, and in many cases, you can start your honeymoon as soon as the (legal) ceremony concludes. If friends and family are coming along, be intentional about where (and when) the wedding ends and the honeymoon begins.

While legal hurdles to a boat wedding exist, it is possible to become married on one, potentially by a ship captain. As with everything marriage-related, there are legal ramifications that require you and your partner to do your due diligence. Ship captains generally aren’t authorized to perform marriages just because of their rank. Careful research, proper documentation, and ensuring the legality of the officiating party are essential to ensure a smooth and legally recognized union, regardless of the enchanting backdrop.